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Surgery

Darlene is going under the knife again.  This will be the 6th surgery she has had since we have been together the last few years.  6 too many if you ask me.  You would think I would be a little used to it by now.  But it is almost the opposite.  Seems like I get more worried now.

I would be absolutely lost without Darlene.  My wife, my friend, lover, mother to our beautiful children.  And so much more.
A person tries not to think of the worst, but obviously you have to think about some things, and the worst always pops in there.

So do me a favor and pray for us tomorrow morning.

Thank you.

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  1. I will be. Take good care of her...I know you will. The babies wll be save & sound & loved with Nana & Papa! Darlene...good luck & rest up after... to heal. xoxo

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